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November’s Message from our Interim Rector What activity, what community, what a spiritual awareness of God’s presence among us has been building in the life of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church! Now, as we are entering the month of November, I am filled with a sense of Thanksgiving to God, for how the Holy Spirit is working in our midst. In God’s name, I am also so grateful to so many of you. Time after time, we are experiencing, in abundance, the divine presence through the community involvement of the people of St. Paul’s.One recent example of this reality took place on October 18, during one of the “rectory restoration work days”. About a handful of volunteers signed-up to install windows that Saturday, yet twelve men arrived and learned how to install home windows from Alan Lay, a professional window installer (and possible future son-in-law of our Project Coordinator, Ward Caldbick). Through the efforts of these men, all the old windows of the church rectory were replaced with new energy efficient windows, by early afternoon. At the same time, a crew of three faithful women of the church scrubbed the basement of that building, which helped remove much of the foul-smelling odor that had made it more difficult to work in the rectory for so long. God is good, and so are we when we align our lives within God’s will. There are so many opportunities to do this throughout the days of each of our lives. Of this, each one of us may be thankful. Yet, it requires our attention to live our lives as God would have us live them. Have you taken a moment out of today to reflect on your own life, and your relationship with our loving God? If not, stop reading this now, and ask God to come into your life right now… to be present to you. Tell God how much you want to be God’s friend… how much you want to be a person who lives your life as God would have you live it. Then, thank God for all the blessings in your life. If you and I really take time to consider ALL the blessings in our lives, we would sincerely be amazed at how much each of us has, for which to be thankful. It’s a good practice to take a few moments each day to thank God for all of our blessings. It may even have become a practice that one or the other of us has forgotten about for some time. November is a good month to remind ourselves to take time, each day, to intentionally think about the many ways in which God is present in each of our lives. Then, to thank God for all God does for each one of us, constantly, each and every day. As you renew your relationship with our dear Lord, today, and throughout this month, it is my prayer that your relationship with God grows into an even stronger friendship than you have experienced up until this time. May God bless you, and those you love, with a most blessed and happy Thanksgiving! In Christ’s love, and ministry,
October’s Message from our Interim Rector God so loved the world, that he gave his only-begotten Son, to the end that all who believe in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16 When the tenth month of the year comes along there are
many thi Last year we put our giving into perspective with whom we are giving to, or rather to whom we are giving back, by walking our pledge cards into the chancel and placing them on the altar. Your Stewardship Committee decided to continue that practice again this year. On the first three Sundays of October, during the Offertory when the money offering is brought forward, each of us will have the opportunity to bring our 2009 Pledge Cards forward and lay them on the altar as we offer back to God the portion we have seriously considered is possible during the next year. I hope you are able to share yourself with us, by worshipping in church regularly during this month. We need your presence with us, and miss you when you are not here. On the first three Sundays, in October, members of our parish will be speaking to us from their hearts about the beloved congregation to which you belong; and why they worship, share in fellowship, and give back to God, through St. Paul’s. Many things are changing in our nation, and in the world. Yet one is ever constant and unchanging, and that is God, and God’s love for you. During this month, when we are reminded of how much God loves each one of us, it is a very good exercise to seriously consider how much we love God. Is it with our whole heart, mind and soul, as the great commandment insists? If this is so, does your giving really reflect the deep love you have for the One who loved you first? If not, is this October the time to put your true feelings on the card that you will take to the altar and place before God? Will the pledge you make for 2009 truly represent the love you hold for God in your heart, in your mind, and in your soul? Is it the best you are able to give back to our God who loves you, and me, so much? In Christ’s love, and ministry,
September’s Message from our Interim Rector
As this fall draws near life continues. The abundance of gifts we have each received from our good and loving God are needed in so many ways to be used as God has intended. You have the ability to delight the Lord of life by reflecting the love and goodness of God back to the source of life. How will you use your gifts for the greater glory and honor of the One who has given everything to you? There are many many opportunities to grow in love by sharing your gifts and talents. If you feel called to be a Eucharistic Minister, please let me know (632-8221). If you can help with the Saturday evening U2Charist planned for October, please be in touch with Tom Bardo (631-8666). If you would like to be involved with the Youth or with St. Paul’s Church School, please call Kate Macke (873-3910). If you have a heart to welcome and greet people as they come into the church on Sunday mornings, please give me a call. Soon, we will be organizing a parish clean-up day, movie nights, and other social gatherings in the life of the church. Hobart Brown (689-1740) is organizing a parish trip to a UB football game in October. Many other programs, social and outreach opportunities will be noted in upcoming bulletins and announcements in church. Come, be part of the work and play that God is giving us to do. We need you to help us do God’s work. You have been given much. Have you been offering to do what you can for the greater honor and glory of God? If yes, you’re on the right track to glory. If not yet… the time is now, and the opportunities are abundant. Come and help us be the church St. Paul’s can become. You are needed. You are wanted, and you are welcome. In Christ’s love, and ministry,
An August 2008 Message from our Interim Rector Just one more month of summer, and then we will quickly be moving into the most active part of the year. Yet, a considerable number of you have been quite active in ministry throughout the sunny, hot and humid days this year, and it has been wonderful to see this happening. With Labor Day being only a month away, you might want to consider a few ideas as you think about the future of St. Paul’s. According to C. Kirk Hadaway, in FACTS on Growth: “One of the pervasive images of congregations in America is that of aging communities of faith. To be sure, the average parishioner tends to be older than the average American. But not all congregations are composed primarily of older adults. Those that have a healthy mix of ages tend to be growing, but most important to growth is the ability of congregations to attract young adults and families with children. Congregations where older adults (over age 60) comprise 20% or less of active adult participants are most likely to grow. Congregations in which more than 40% of their regular participants are over 60 are very unlikely to grow. The mere presence of older adults is not problematic in and of itself. But a congregation where a large proportion of the members are older tends to have a cluster of characteristics that inhibit growth. Not only are no children being born to members, but such congregations tend to lack a clear sense of mission and purpose, vibrant worship or involvement in recruitment/evangelism, and they also are more likely to be located in rural areas and smaller towns. Congregations located in newer suburbs are more likely to experience growth than congregations in any other type of location. Congregations are least likely to grow in rural areas and small towns. Newer suburbs are where the greatest population growth is occurring. New people move into new housing and often look for a worshipping community nearby.” Since Clarence is one of the fastest growing suburbs in WNY, demographically, St. Paul’s is ideally situated. Since there is a good mixture of parishioners in varied age groups, welcoming new people into the life of your congregation can be accomplished. Once welcoming others becomes second nature to all of St. Paul’s, more and more people will find their way into the Kingdom of God through your red church doors. That is, if you are prepared to welcome them into an active community of faith. What are your summer thoughts and intentions in planning to make this a reality in the life of your parish? In Christ’s love, and ministry,
July 2008… preparation for a new era at St. Paul’s moves forward It is anticipated that one short year from now you will be welcoming your new Rector of St. Paul’s. This is an exciting expectation that certainly can be accomplished. Yet, preparing for a new spiritual leader for your parish requires effort and energy from everyone who calls St. Paul’s your spiritual home.Truly everyone, without exception, is needed to come together for the common good of your congregation at this time in the life of St. Paul’s. Isn’t this exciting? Isn’t this a wonderful time to be alive, and part of the Body of Christ which worships at 4275 Harris Hill Road? I am blessed to be part of your experience as you move forward to do the work of discovery, of spiritual preparation, and of the physical preparation of the properties of the church. It is truly an exciting time here, at St. Paul’s. What part have you accepted in making this time of transition complete? Have you assessed your skills and talents that God has blessed you with, and then approached either of your wardens to offer your time and talent available for the good of Christ’s church at St. Paul’s. The names of your wardens are Donna Leney (741-2583), and David Crowther (517-6354). We need you to serve on the many committees in the life of the parish. We need you to be a greeter at the doors of the church on Sunday morning and at Saturday evening. We need you to be an example of Christian Hospitality by hosting coffee hour. We need you to cook hot dogs and hamburgers at the two summer events coming up this month and in early August. We need you to prayerfully complete the question and answer form you will soon receive, and to return it to the Profile Committee in good time. We need you to be an ambassador of Christ to all the new people who worship with us at St. Paul’s, and not let anyone leave without you welcoming them in Christ’s name. We need you to be with us on a regular basis, each week, as we worship our Lord and are reminded what it means to be a disciple, baptized into the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. What part are you taking as we move forward into this new era in the life of St. Paul’s? We need you… In Christ’s love, and ministry,
An Early Summer Message from Father Leon Mozeliak Awards, picnics, graduations, school year endings; these are the things of June. Yet there is much more, vacations to come, grass to cut, swimming, golfing, baseball, gardening, boating/sailing, etc. Summer is the time of year when most of us go outside to enjoy the life that we live. Usually the sun shines brighter in our part of the world, and we can enjoy its warmth… or even get to complain about it being too HOT! It is sometimes a season in which we think that life is so good that we just don’t need to spend any of this wonderful season praising God in any formal way, or in fellowship with other Christians. It’s summer, after all, so why bother to get out of bed on Sunday, when there is so much to do. Or even to take time from other possible enjoyment on a late Saturday afternoon is simply too much bother. Who needs to see me inside… especially in church (of all places) during the summer? I may as well spend a few hours inside a movie theater or at a play, during this outdoor season, and of course I would never do that… would I? So, during the recent past, church attendance has suffered in many Episcopal parishes once the academic year ends. This phenomenon is a bit quirky, however, especially for those of us who are not vacationing in Antarctica, where it can be hard to find a church. Although it is often thought otherwise, God does not take the summer off. Even on the most beautiful of days, God’s love surrounds each of us, always. Test this. Stop for a moment on the nicest day you experience this summer, and check if you are still breathing. If so, isn’t it appropriate to deliberately stop the frantic rush of life for an hour or two… once a week… to thank and praise the Lord of Life, who gives us that breath? Even when we are blessed with a healthy mind and body, it is certainly possible that once or twice a year you or I may not be able to make it to church. Yet, during those very few occasions of the year, we most likely do miss out on an abundance of grace. We have lost an opportunity of fellowship with other Christians. We have missed the banquet of our Lord, in which Christ’s body and blood are given, in sacramental form, to strengthen us throughout the week ahead. Usually summer is a wonderful season for us to enjoy the beauty of God’s earth. It is also a wonderful opportunity for us to renew our relationship with our God, who makes it possible to enjoy. Come to church throughout this summer. Join us as St. Paul’s, if you are home. Find one of God’s summer homes to visit with God, and his other children, when you are away. In Christ’s love, and ministry,
SAINT PAUL’s OPEN HOUSE SUNDAY MAY 18 (Troop and Cub Pack 93 are our Honored Guests) At our April Worship and Music Committee Meeting the idea of celebrating the life and presence of St. Paul’s in our community with an Open House Sunday was adopted by all the members present. What is an OPEN HOUSE SUNDAY, and what does this mean for those of us who are regular in attendance at St. Paul’s? It is a day to welcome others into the house of God in which we worship, enjoy each other’s company, learn about our role in the Kingdom and how much God loves us. It is a day to share the joy, love and peace of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, with everyone and anyone we can think to invite to be with us on this intentional day of welcome to others. It is a day for us to simply be hosts to others who might be wondering just what goes on in that white building topped with a cross, just south of Main Street, on Harris Hill Road. During our principle liturgy, at 10 AM, other instruments than organ and piano will be incorporated into our worship experience. Members of our Cub Pack and of our Boy Scout Troop will have honored seating. We ask that EVERYONE wear your NAME BADGE, and be especially mindful that you are an ambassador of Jesus Christ, and the people of St. Paul’s, to all who will be visiting us that day. (This is also true every day, we are highlighting this ministry to emphasize that many people will, hopefully, be with us on May 18, who are new to worshipping with us.) Following the celebration of Holy Eucharist (10 AM) there will be a “Grand Coffee Hour” similar to what many of you provide each week, but we hope others will sign-up to help, and to bring food, for the Open House Coffee Hour! If you are the chairperson, or a member of a committee, or guild, (e.g. acolytes, choir, St. Martha’s, ECW, ushers, men’s group, etc.) that may want to welcome new people into your membership, please set up a table with some information… and members available, to tell others about your ministry and invite those who may be interested to become one of your group. (Information Tables may be set up surrounding the periphery of the parish hall, and/or in the library.) All in all, it is anticipated that our OPEN HOUSE SUNDAY on MAY 18 will be a day of JUBILANT CELEBRATION… a day of WELCOME… a day of JOY for all who enter the doors of St. Paul’s. Yet, it is true that to be successful, it is up to you to make others know and feel that everyone who comes is truly… …Welcome in the Name of our Lord, Jesus Christ,
A March 2008 Message from our Interim Rector
When I was a child, at the beginning of this month, my grandfather, Andrew Mozeliak, would remind us that “March comes in like a lion and goes out like a lamb, or it comes in like a lamb and goes out like a lion.” I’ve remembered these words, and although I don’t use the saying myself, during the month of the year in which spring “officially” arrives, I often wonder which one it will be this year. We Christians who live in the Western Traditions of our faith, throughout the word, will walk the pathway of our Lord’s passion and death this month. We still have the opportunity to make a “holy Lent” as we were admonished on Ash Wednesday, when we enter into the month of March. We are reminded that this is accomplished through prayer, fasting, and giving alms. We still have a few opportunities to come to the celebration of the Holy Eucharist, midweek and to be anointed with Holy Oil, during the Church’s Ministry of Healing, at the service on Wednesday evening at 7:00. Then on the 16th of this volatile month, we enter into Holy Week, and celebrate Palm Sunday. This is a nearly schizophrenic day in the life of the church. It begins with our Lord riding toward the City of Jerusalem on a young colt or donkey, as he is praised and applauded by the excited crowds of people who welcome him with “Hosanna, to the Son of David. Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.” This is a moment of triumph, and the excited crowds lay their cloaks before him, and cut palm branches to do the same, or to wave in the air in the excitement of the moment. Then, within the time we could sit down to enjoy a cup of coffee, we are involved in the Passion reading, in which Jesus is condemned to death and crucified. Most of the services for Holy Week will take place at 7:00 P.M. On Wednesday night, we will gather for the service of shadows, Tenebrae, as our Vestry leads us in the story of Salvation with special readings from Holy Scripture. Apart from the chant of the Lamentations (in which each verse is introduced by a letter of the Hebrew alphabet), the most conspicuous feature of the service is the gradual extinguishing of candles and other lights in the church until only a single candle, considered a symbol of our Lord, remains. On Maundy Thursday, at 7:00 P.M., we will incorporate our Lord’s mandate to wash each other’s feet, into our liturgy, on that night in which Jesus first celebrated the Last Supper with his disciples, gave us the Sacrament of his Body and Blood, and then was taken away, by the temple guards, to be sentenced (in a mock trial) for blasphemy. It is often the custom in many Episcopal Churches to have an all night Vigil before the blessed Sacrament. In lieu of this, we will be offering the opportunity to stay with us for a few hours, after the service, to experience the showing of The Passion of the Christ. It will be shown our parish hall, and we ask that silence be kept before, during, and after this presentation. (It is an extremely powerful motion picture recommended for adults, and for older teenagers, accompanied by adult guardians.) Good Friday is the day on which our Lord, Jesus died on the cross. To honor this, the church’s service goes on from Noon, until 3:00 P.M., the hours he hung on the cross. The liturgy of Good Friday is stark and solemn, it is the day in which the Holy Eucharist may not be celebrated in any church. Just before the hour of 3:00, every host and every drop of consecrated wine is consumed, as we remember his death on that first Good Friday. That same evening, our choir will lead us in prayerful remembrance and hopeful anticipation through Evensong, which will begin at 7:00 P.M. It is a time for the rest of us to meditate on all that has taken place, in the life of Jesus, and in the life of his Church, for our salvation. On Saturday evening, again at 7:00, we will come together to celebrate the Great Vigil of Easter. It is the most solemn liturgy of the entire church year. The Great Vigil is the first service of Easter Day, so the first time we will proclaim Alleluia, at the joy of our Lord’s glorious Resurrection, in forty days. The service consists of four parts: 1. The Service of Light. 2. The Service of Lessons. 3. Christian Initiation, or the Renewal of Baptismal Vows. (If there are any children or adults to be baptized on this most appropriate occasion, please speak with me as soon as possible.) 4. The Holy Eucharist with the administration of Easter Communion. Then, our Easter Sunday services will be held at the usual times, 8:00 and 10:00 A.M. If you have never walked the way of the cross with Jesus, during Holy Week, or if it has been a long time since your last experience, it will be a week in which your relationship with God, through our loving Lord, can be renewed and strengthened. Don’t miss it, unless whatever else you might be doing is as beneficial to your immortal soul. May God bless you with a Holy Lent and all the blessings of the Passion, Death, and Resurrection, of his Son, our Lord, Jesus Christ, this March.In Christ’s love, and ministry, ![]() The Rev. Leon C. Mozeliak, Jr., Interim Rector
DECEMBER 2007 . . . REMINDERS OF WHO WE ARE We will be observing the Season of Advent during the first four weeks of December. Advent begins the church year. It is a time of anticipation, of watching and waiting for the coming of the kingdom of God in power. Although in some ways it shares with Lent in an atmosphere of preparation, restraint and penitence, it confidently directs us toward the joy of Christmas as that season draws near. In his Catechetical Lectures, Cyril of Jerusalem teaches that “we do not preach only one coming of Christ, but a second as well, more glorious than the first. The first coming was marked by patience; the second will bring the crown of a divine kingdom. In general, what relates to our Lord Jesus Christ has two aspects. There is a birth from God before the ages, and a birth from a virgin at the fullness of time. There is a hidden coming, like that of rain on fleece, and a coming before all eyes, still in the future.” Since we are now at the beginning of our church year, it seems to be an ideal time for us to remind ourselves of our roots in our Lord Jesus Christ, and the tradition to which we belong. If you go to the official website of the Episcopal Church (www.dfms.org) you can find the following: “What makes us Anglican?
Protestant, Yet Catholic Worship in one’s first language The Book of Common Prayer The present prayer book in the Episcopal Church was published in 1979. Many other worship resources and prayers exist to enrich our worship, but the Book of Common Prayer is the authority that governs our worship. The prayer book explains Christianity, describes the main beliefs of the Church, outlines the requirements for the sacraments, and in general serves as the main guidelines of the Episcopal life. Scripture, Tradition, and Reason The Church, as a worshiping body of faithful people, has for two thousand years amassed experience of God and of loving Jesus, and what they have said to us through the centuries about the Bible is critical to our understanding it in our own context. The traditions of the Church in interpreting Scripture connect all generations of believers together and give us a starting point for our own understanding. Episcopalians believe that every Christian must build an understanding and relationship with God’s Word in the Bible, and to do that, God has given us intelligence and our own experience, which we refer to as “Reason.” Based on the text of the Bible itself, and what Christians have taught us about it through the ages, we then must sort out our own understanding of it as it relates to our own lives.” We are people of faith immersed in a rich tradition with Jesus Christ as the head of the church which he founded. We are the community of the New Covenant, the People of God, we share in the royal priesthood of the one, holy, catholic, and apostolic church. As such, our mission is to restore all people to unity with God and each other in Christ. You and I pursue our mission as we pray, as we worship, as we proclaim the Gospel, and promote justice, peace, and love. Each one of us is called to carry out this mission. It is our . . . it is your ministry. As we live into the seasons of Advent and Christmas that this month brings us, remember that you are ministers of the Church which was founded by our Lord Jesus Christ. Remember also that your ministry is to represent Christ and his Church; to bear witness to him wherever you may be; and, according to the gifts given you, to carry on Christ’s work of reconciliation in the world; and to take your place in the life, worship, and governance of the Church. As you do this, may God fill you with an abundance of divine grace during these blessed days ahead. In Christ’s love, and ministry, ![]() The Rev. Leon C. Mozeliak, Jr., Interim Rector
November 2007: A Message from our Interim Rector Being with you, at St. Paul’s, is a blessing to Lynn and me in many ways. Hopefully your experience of our presence among you has been similarly received . . . especially your coming to know me, as your interim priest. For the most part, this seems to be the case because the question has come up, from several members of the parish, asking if I might become your rector.This is a COMMON QUESTION . . . Should Interims be Candidates for the Permanent Position? So I will answer it in the words of the Rev. Robert Voyle. “An almost universal phenomena that occurs in interim ministry is that at some stage the parish and the priest will begin to entertain ideas that the interim should become the permanent priest. A second almost universal phenomena that follows the first, if these feelings are not firmly resisted, is that the pastoral relationship will become conflicted and ultimately destructive to the life of the parish and the clergy person. A similar phenomena of parishes seeking to call the associate rector as the permanent rector can be equally disastrous. Many in the Church can recall stories of pain and unnecessary suffering because interims or associates were allowed to become the rector. Out of such experiences many in church leadership have decreed that the interim or associate should never be considered as a candidate. Yet, while I write this I am reminded of a colleague, who was sponsored for ordination from a parish, returned there as a curate, (supposedly an equally bad thing) and then when the rector departed, was called as the rector. He has now been there some twenty years, and from all accounts has done a grand job and the parish continues to prosper. When asking for feedback from members on whether the interim should be considered as a candidate the vast majority of the responses were adamantly opposed, with statements that it was "like committing adultery" and led to much misery. On the other hand several raised the issue of "priest-in-charge under special circumstances" where parishes in essence are given a priest by the bishop as an interim with the understanding that it could be made permanent after three years if both parties agreed. Such parishes don't undertake a typical search and many go on to call the interim as rector. From all accounts that I received most of these situations have worked out quite successfully. As someone who holds rigidly to a flexible plan and definitely not given to solving human dilemmas by legalism, I am intrigued to discover when it may be a Godly thing for the interim to be a candidate and when it may be a very ungodly thing. In reviewing situations that have become conflicted I think most of the misery resulted from two critical issues being overlooked. The first is the issue of fear and its impact on a congregation's decision making. In the realm of solving crimes, popular wisdom suggests that one should "follow the money." When consulting with parishes in conflict my advice is to "follow the fear." People in fear do crazy things and generally make very poor decisions. I am continually amazed at the place fear has in our lives, from Adam's response to hiding from God because "we were afraid" to Jesus' numerous admonitions "do not be afraid" throughout the Gospels. Living in fear may be our heritage as sinners but it is not our inheritance as Children of God. Yet I wonder how many daily decisions in the life of the church are made because someone is afraid. The interim phenomena of mutual infatuation is understandable in the light of the inherent fear of the wilderness experience of transitional times. Out of the instability of the moment people either reach back to their past or fearfully cling to whatever person is present in the moment. Great pressure may be exerted on clergy, bishops, and congregations to solve this anxiety by simply appointing the interim as the rector. For the interim, the infatuation can be very ego-intoxicating and also lead to clouded judgment and poor decision making. The interim minister needs to be very intentional about assisting the congregation with coming to terms with these basic insecurities of the interim period rather than assisting their repression by becoming the permanent priest. Such fears will not remain repressed but will become manifest in the poor decisions that are made in its midst. When fear is the basic motivation then the wise interim will resist like a saint the demands of their own ego or the corporate fear of a parish or the church at large. The second critical issue is that of intentionality and failing to honor commitments once they have been made. When I first began interim ministry, I was an associate who was principally filling in for the rector while we waited for the new one to arrive. I was not intentional about the interim time other than maintaining the pastoral life of the parish. We did not consider issues of grief or transition and in hindsight the parish was done a great disservice as it was not prepared for a change of leadership and several years later went through some very difficult times. Now I am very intentional. As intentional interims we are committing ourselves to assist a congregation with the transition between leadership. To seek to change the nature of the relationship mid-course and become a candidate is to betray the commitment to assist the congregation in their transition. It is a violation of the boundaries that are established at the beginning of the relationship. These boundaries are essential, especially in conflicted situations, if the interim is to remain objective and not embroiled in the conflict. It becomes impossible to maintain credibility as a healing presence when energy becomes diverted from facilitating a healthy transition to establishing oneself as the best possible candidate. Changing the plan midstream and becoming a candidate circumvents the self-study and search process. The risk of divisively polarizing a congregation becomes enormous if another candidate is called over the interim who is already known to the parish as being available for the position. Some interims have succumbed to the seductiveness of interim infatuation because they entered into an interim position while really wanting a permanent position. Interim infatuation also blinds both clergy and congregations to long-term realities. The skills that may make a clergy person effective as an interim may be a liability in a permanent position. For example, effective interims are able to respond quickly to crisis situations but may be less inclined to persist with long-term planning. The parish, while appreciative of these skills during an interim, may erroneously assume that the interim would make a good long-term rector. Intentionality is also one of the reasons why the priest-in-charge under special circumstances, in contrast to interims becoming candidates, appears to be effective. At the beginning of the pastoral relationship the plan is clearly spelled out to the congregation and the clergy person. This plan is not altered because people have become frightened or infatuated. Rather, there is a commitment from both priest and parish to work without recrimination. While this process is going on both the priest and the parish are not distracted by competing with other candidates in a search process, but can focus their attention on their mutual ministry. Intentionally and commitment to this plan also has the effect of reducing a considerable amount of fear by providing stability in the midst of turmoil. Clergy need to be clear with themselves and the parish when they enter into a pastoral relationship. If we have agreed to serve as an intentional interim we need to honor that commitment and not succumb to the fears, infatuations, or our own changing desires. Intentional interims need to begin preparing a congregation for their departure the day they arrive, especially be reminding the congregation that they will not be a candidate for the position of rector. When the interim succumbs to fear or interim infatuation all the intentionality and commitment to the interim process goes out the window and the congregation is robbed of its opportunity for grieving, self reflection, new understanding, and a healthy healing transition between leadership. It is analogous to going to care for a grieving friend only to end up in bed with them. Such relationships are not very Godly and are rarely helpful or successful.” As your Vestry is well aware, when I was called to St. Paul’s, it was intentionally for an interim period, which we anticipated to be two to three years. Because there is a great deal of work to be done in the life of the parish, this remains the time-frame from which we will continue to work. There are definite stages in interim ministry and we are in the process of living through them during our time together. Because I will not be a candidate to become your next rector, with God’s help, we have the liberty to do what is needed during this time. Be at peace, we anticipate being with you, at St. Paul’s, as long as we are needed. God has blessed us with the gift of each other until the time comes when a new rector is called to be the spiritual leader of your parish. In the meantime, God has given us joyful work to do together. In Christ’s love, and ministry, |
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